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Le week-end dernier, je suis all\u00e9e voir le film \u00ab Ticket to paradise \u00bb avec ma fille. Le film n\u2019\u00e9tait pas extraordinaire, mais une phrase disant quelque chose du genre: \u00ab est-il plus important d\u2019aimer ou d\u2019\u00eatre aim\u00e9? \u00bb, a attir\u00e9 mon attention. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dans notre monde, on a tendance \u00e0 penser qu\u2019il vaut mieux \u00eatre aim\u00e9 plut\u00f4t que d\u2019aimer sans rien en attendre. Aimer sans rien recevoir en retour est souvent per\u00e7u comme une faiblesse, quelque chose de path\u00e9tique. Ou alors on r\u00e9serve \u00e7a aux religieuses qui ont d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de consacrer leur vie aux autres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il nous a aim\u00e9 le premier<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Je tourne le regard vers Dieu, et je r\u00e9alise alors qu\u2019il m\u2019a aim\u00e9e le premier. Pourtant, il savait que jamais je ne pourrais l\u2019aimer comme il aime. Il m\u2019a tellement aim\u00e9e, qu\u2019il m\u2019a offert ce qu\u2019il avait de plus cher pour me sauver de ma condition. Il m\u2019a sortie de la loi de la vengeance – oeil pour oeil, dent pour dent – afin de me faire entrer dans la loi du pardon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u2019est pourquoi, alors que je prends conscience de l\u2019immensit\u00e9 de son amour, je comprends l\u2019ordre qu\u2019il me donne d\u2019aimer mon prochain comme moi-m\u00eame. De mes propres forces, je n\u2019y arriverai pas. Mais chaque jour il me remplit pour qu\u2019\u00e0 mon tour je d\u00e9borde d\u2019amour.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u2019amour ne meurt jamais<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Celui qui vit en moi dit que l\u2019amour ne meurt jamais. Si c\u2019est vrai, pourquoi alors l\u2019amour sur terre ne dure-t-il pas toujours? Tous les jours, des couples, des familles, des amis se d\u00e9chirent, la haine rempla\u00e7ant parfois l\u2019amour. Pourtant il affirme que l\u2019amour ne meurt jamais. Pourquoi? Peut-\u00eatre finalement est-ce assez simple: si l\u2019amour meurt, c\u2019est que ce n\u2019\u00e9tait pas vraiment de l\u2019amour. C\u2019\u00e9tait une contrefa\u00e7on, un ersatz d\u2019amour. Une ombre de l\u2019amour mais pas l\u2019amour v\u00e9ritable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u2019amour qui vient de Celui qui donne la vie est parfait. Et l\u2019amour parfait bannit la crainte. Lorsque j\u2019aime de cet amour parfait, je suis pr\u00eate \u00e0 tout donner pour l\u2019autre, jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ma vie. Parce que JE SUIS vit en moi, qu\u2019il m\u2019a aim\u00e9e le premier et qu\u2019il a lui-m\u00eame donn\u00e9 sa vie pour moi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Qui aime est patient et bon, il n\u2019est pas envieux, ne se vante pas et n\u2019est pas pr\u00e9tentieux; il ne fait rien de honteux, n\u2019est pas \u00e9go\u00efste, ne s\u2019irrite pas et n\u2019\u00e9prouve pas de rancune; il ne se r\u00e9jouit pas du mal, il se r\u00e9jouit de la v\u00e9rit\u00e9. Qui aime supporte tout et garde en toute circonstance la foi, l\u2019esp\u00e9rance et la patience. L\u2019amour est Eternel.<\/p>1 Corinthiens 13. 4-8 BFC<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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